Category: Reality Check

In this month's Reality Check article, I talk about 10 things that a sub should expect from every dom. - (Read more.)

Trans women are women. Trans men are men. Non-binary people exist and are wonderful. If you find something hot in my fucked-up erotica, you're welcome in my community. - (Read more.)

In this month's reality check, I provide some positive words to read for people with a degradation kink when they need aftercare but there's no one to give it to them. (Read more.)

As part of offering gender-degradation and non-consent fantasy erotica in a responsible way, I regularly touch base with what safe, respectful, healthy kink looks like in the real world. This month I'm telling you that everyone should see a psych, and how to get the psych that's right for you. (Read more.)

You don't have to have sex - ever - and no one's entitled to judge you for that. In this month's Reality Check, I discuss why, and what that means. (Read more.)

This month's Reality Check looks at how my fiction differs from reality in relation to hypnosis, sustained arousal, and orgasms. - (Read more.)

Each month I write a Reality Check article to offset my erotica with discussions of real-life safety, respect and consent. This month I talk about the risk profiles of abuse. - (Read more.)