Category: Reality Check

As part of writing non-consent and gender degradation erotica in a responsible manner, I regularly present articles touching base with safe, respectful, equitable behaviour in the real world. This month's article talks about being a "virgin" - and how that concept is nonsense, how being inexperienced is okay, and how to break the drought once you're ready. - (Read more.)

As part of writing non-consent and gender degradation erotica in a responsible manner, I regularly present a Reality Check article, touching base with safe, respectful, equitable behaviour in kink, in relationships, and in the world generally. This month's article provides 10 points of advice for men, in honour of International Men's Day. - (Read more.)

Given what I write, I cannot in good conscience stay silent on this. Don't vote for Trump. - (Read more about why.)

In this month's Reality Check article, I talk about 10 things that a sub should expect from every dom. - (Read more.)

Trans women are women. Trans men are men. Non-binary people exist and are wonderful. If you find something hot in my fucked-up erotica, you're welcome in my community. - (Read more.)

In this month's reality check, I provide some positive words to read for people with a degradation kink when they need aftercare but there's no one to give it to them. (Read more.)

As part of offering gender-degradation and non-consent fantasy erotica in a responsible way, I regularly touch base with what safe, respectful, healthy kink looks like in the real world. This month I'm telling you that everyone should see a psych, and how to get the psych that's right for you. (Read more.)

You don't have to have sex - ever - and no one's entitled to judge you for that. In this month's Reality Check, I discuss why, and what that means. (Read more.)

This month's Reality Check looks at how my fiction differs from reality in relation to hypnosis, sustained arousal, and orgasms. - (Read more.)

Each month I write a Reality Check article to offset my erotica with discussions of real-life safety, respect and consent. This month I talk about the risk profiles of abuse. - (Read more.)